I'm 18, girlfriend is 16. (parents love me and the law does too b.t.w., I've known her for years.)
And we're getting tired of places we've been having sex.
Any suggestions other than my car, and various private rooms in her house and mine?
We've one all of that.
ma4t101 days ago
Answer 1 of 12
Just don't get in trouble. Whatever you do, don't get busted.
Other than that, people can pretty much do it anywhere. Sexpert is right. Make sure you use a condom and don't make messes on other people's furniture.
I find that if there is an element of danger involved, it's a lot of fun. The heightened senses make it
OK, so here are a few things my gf and I did.
* Hiking - we found a secluded place where nobody could see us, but we could actually hear people walking down the foot path
* Another time hiking - went off the main road and did it standing up (doggy style) a few feet from a busy road, on the other side of a tree. We could hear cars going by, but nobody could see us. We were about 10 feet below the road.
* In the garage of her parent's house in the back of an SUV.
* In a parking garage in a van. We could hear people walking around outside, but nobody could see in.
* Looking for an apartment, the landlord was busy and gave us the key. We went in side and did it on a window sill.
The overall themes are, both of us were willing, and it was spontaneous.
The most dangerous thing we ever did was have sex behind some bushes during a huge concert in the park. We were both so excited that it only lasted a few seconds. She was wearing a mini-skirt. She laid down with her legs straight out and pulled her panties down just enough for me to enter her. I laid on top of her and just a few strokes later, I made a mess all over the inside of her skirt. (It was so spontaneous that we didn't even have a condom ready.)
We quickly stood up and walked away.
Other things you can try to make things exciting are to go to a local hangout. Since you're minors, you can't go to a bar, but go to the mall in separate cars. Pretend to pick her up and take her somewhere to have sex. Then send her home. Pretend it's a one-night stand. Have her write her number down and tell her you'll call.
Other things to try. Make love without speaking. Make love without touching her with your hands. Blindfolds. Etc.
Last one. I shared a room. My roommate did not tell me his gf was coming over. They were doing it in the bedroom when my gf showed up. Now this is really kinky, but we did it in the living room while they were going it in the bedroom, and we could hear each other. That's the kind of stuff you can do when you're 18 and crazy.
sexpert104 days ago
Answer 2 of 12
What about in her ass?
Oh wait, you're talking about THOSE other places. nevermind.
Okay, this is really bad, but when I was younger, I used to do it at my friend's houses without them knowing. I got a total thrill out of it. Always use a condom, don't leave a mess, and make it quick and quiet.
Also, if you can't find new places to do it, you can always try new ways of doing it. I like adding toys to the equation. little tip: Vibrating cock ring = vibrating penis. Totally awesome. And yes, can you use your vibrating dick to tickle her clit? Of course!
Other neat things you can do with toys besides the standard vibrator? Try getting a vibrating butt plug and use it while having vaginal sex. The butt plug will vibrate, giving her pleasure, but it also presses against the vaginal wall and causes the vagina to become tighter and vibrate. Totally awesome for the penis involved too. Hell, buy one for yourself while you're at it!
Simone de Boudoir104 days ago
Answer 3 of 12
I'm here to save your life. Find yourself a drive-in theatre and go to it.
If you are not fortunate enough to live near a drive-in theatre, you are missing out.
madmonk129 days ago
Answer 4 of 12
Three words: parks and mirrors. (not at the same time though...unless you want to haul a massive mirror around in your car...which, actually...that would be awesome, do it.).
I've found that secluded parks can be a great place to roll out a blanket and just BE with my girlfriend. We usually end up fucking our brains out, and there really is something about being among the thorns and brambles (though not having them touch you, thorns are friends to no one, especially not when you are naked) that just feels right...very natural, anyway. Sometimes the most wonderful thing about these parks is that they have bathrooms (and in some cases these bathrooms have been chained shut for the winter)--protip: not that I'm advocating property destruction (which, actually, I am) but consider bringing an axe along with you (or if properly used a screwdriver can work just as well) and breaking in to one such bathroom and turning it into a love-nest of sorts--just bring lots of very warm blankets, some nice pillows, and have at it. Now before you do this you will want to make dead-sure it is off the beaten path and that the area is not patrolled by anyone who might take notice of signs of habitation etc. As a plus, many of these places also have mirrors, in some cases very large mirrors. Use them to your advantage.
angelaoohlahlah152 days ago
Answer 5 of 12
shower
woods
lake
anywhere outdoors forsure!
DateDaily167 days ago
Answer 6 of 12
Considering you're young and likely broke, I recommend the following places:
Shower
Public bathroom
Friend's house
House party (on the coats)
In a wooded area (go for a hike and get it on)
So I answered your question, but keep in mind, where you do it isn't nearly as important as how you do it. You should focus on your technique more so than your venue.
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oohlookasquirrel188 days ago
Answer 7 of 12
When I was a teen and first having sex, my boyfriend and I wanted to try everything. We did it everyplace we could (including quite a few places that were probably really dangerous, in retrospect) and we messed around with blindfolds and tying each other up and playing with whipped cream and the shower and so forth. All of this was fun because of the novelty factor, but you know what? We never really got good at anything. We'd try things once and say "that was pretty fun, what's next?" but nothing ever really stuck with us. I never once had an orgasm from intercourse with that guy, and we dated for years. Not that you shouldn't have sex in fun places if that turns you on, but there's a difference between having great, satisfying sex and having sex just to add another place to the list of places you've fucked.
If I could go back and do it again, I would have learned how to get off in a variety of situations and what my body is capable of doing. I've been sexually active for nearly ten years now and I still have a lot to learn. Are you both having orgasms easily? Can you get each other off with only your hands? With your mouths? Have you explored anal play (read up on it first for safety though!)? Have you made your girlfriend ejaculate/squirt? Find her g-spot with your fingers and see how she likes it! I thought I couldn't when I was a teen, but I was quite wrong. Have you played with sex toys yet? There's a whole world of them waiting for you. You guys are way too young to be thinking that plain old sex in a bed is boring. There is so much to do yet, and it's a lot of fun to have a partner who is willing to have sexual adventures with you. I highly recommend the Sex is Fun podcast for ideas on fun sexual things to try that will make you a better lover at the same time.
Oh, and because a lot of people have mentioned sex in water, you should definitely get some silicone lube before you try it, because water washes the body's natural lube away and sex without lube is pretty uncomfortable.
icantcontrol188 days ago
Answer 8 of 12
Just do it anywhere everywhere. Hey all the places are good to have sex.
In cars ,buses ,trains, planes, school ,colleges,classrooms, in labs , in your teacher/principle room , college toilets(just get into girls toilet with your partner and lock it from inside), different rooms of your/partner's house , beach, in parks(go early in the morning/late night or at afternoon) , at roof of your house, in the parking, at parties ,go together for school/college tours(convert educational tour into sexual tours) , in open streets(go for a walk after dinner & make it) , in canteen , gardens , swimming-pool , stadiums(female athletes are damn sexy), etc .
Try to do it everywhere whenever you get a chance.
I want to do but I don't have a GF. I talked to few girls but.......Once I masturbated in school when I was sent outside of class as a punishment.
Just make sure you can handle your partner and other people if they find you enjoying. People jealous who enjoy.
Don't worry about doing it in ladies toilets. Ladies toilets are always more clean then boys.
Piper191 days ago
Answer 9 of 12
There are lots of places to have sex! Sometimes it is nice to start somewhere and move to another place after foreplay.
You can always rent a motel, not very hygienic but it is a new place! In the bath tub is an exotic one. It may be better for foreplay, but then you can move into the bedroom. If you ever go on a plane together, join the mile high club (have sex in the air plane's bathroom!).
Kyle Miracle205 days ago
Answer 10 of 12
In my opinion, good sex has always been about how Instinctive I am. The more I am thinking and the more I am consciously aware of everything, the less enjoyable and sexy it is on the whole. Be impulsive, act on instinct, be an animal.
Beyond that, talk to her and ask what kinky stuff she is into (or secretly fantasizes, or has never tried but wants to). Sometimes, the daunting tasks in life are solved by asking yourself what you want, then verbalizing it, "I want..." or "I think it's really hot/sexy/turn on when you..."
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steveo7205 days ago
Answer 11 of 12
Wadekid nailed it (no pun intended) with one word...MIRRORS. Find a room with lots of mirrors, maybe a closet or bathroom. It's weird but when you can see it from a different perspective it adds a whole other level of excitement.
Other ideas....outdoors, like camping or when your just outside at night, maybe certain public places like changing rooms (kinda risky, but fun), on a beach if you live near one....
wadekid13205 days ago
Answer 12 of 12
A few suggestions....
- If either of you have a hot tub or pool that can be a lot of fun
- In the shower..but it's gotta be a big shower or else, trust me, it'll be more work than it's worth
- Bathrooms. This one might sound kinda weird, but having sex in the bathroom, with her on the counter, can be real hot. One word: MIRRORS.