Guys, Girls...what things do you think about while your having sex?
machinegunner190 days ago
Answer 1 of 6
I'm thinking of ways to make her cum more and harder, after all its all about her pleasure that gives me pleasure, unless I've had a rough day at work then its a bdsm night and its all about what i want which gets her off because she loves to make me happy.
whitequeen230 days ago
Answer 2 of 6
Im never sure if I should be offended that my man is thinking of something other than me, or appreciative that he cares enough to try to last as long as possible. For me, knowing that he is thinking of something else brings out my instigating side and I must go crazy on him until he loses the thought. Its a fine game at times to see how long he can hold it before I drive him over the edge. Its also very sexy to hear him say increasingly frantically..."blue sky...blue sky!" before hes gone.lol
sexpert267 days ago
Answer 3 of 6
I think about how much my partner is enjoying it. That usually gets me off pretty quick.
I tend to go into a little abstract world in my head without visual input, without too many thoughts except "this is amazing" and a series of expletives. I focus very hard on what is happening to my body (haha, I said hard on) and the waves of pleasure. I listen to when my body is ready to cum so that I can do my part to push myself over the edge.
Occasionally I realize I have to fart and I concentrate very hard on not doing that, because that would break the mood.
I can tell you what I don't think about. I don't think about my facial expression, or how weird I look. I don't think about whether or not my stomach flab is jiggling. I don't think about if someone can hear me moaning. All of those things stop me from cumming quickly, and I have just learned not to think about that.
Simone de Boudoir267 days ago
Answer 4 of 6
Almost always I think about dirty things that I wish the guy was saying to me. I'm very aurally stimulated and most guys don't do the whole dirty talk thing (or commands and begging and namecalling) if they're not familiar with bdsm type play to begin with. I've had a few of them try, but it's not quite the same as someone who is confident in what they're saying to me.
Seriously though, you want me to cum like a madwoman? Tease the shit out of me until I can't stand it, while telling me what a dirty whore I am and making me beg for your cock inside me. Ahhhh.
ma4t267 days ago
Answer 5 of 6
Depends. Sometimes, nothing. That's the best.
One time, I went through my list of old girlfriends, and tried to remember having sex with all of them. I got confused and mixed up the order, though, but by that time it didn't matter. LOL!
Usually, I am thinking about how beautiful my partner is and how it always goes too quickly.
TheDude346 days ago
Answer 6 of 6
Believe it or not, I play an imaginary game of baseball in my mind. It's my favorite MLB team and I do the play-by-play. Probably sounds kinda stupid but It actually helps distract me so I can last longer : )