Flirting
the "question mark" move...thoughts?
I'm in college. when i think a guy i am in class with is cute, or he i like him, i write a giant "?" on a sheet of notebook paper, catch his eye, look him strait in the eye, flash him the question mark, and smile. then i go back to my notes, like nothing happened. after a few minutes i look up again. exchange glances, ect. i think it's cute. it usually works. one time, though, a guy thought i didn't understand the lesson and tried to explain it to me after class. another time the wrong guy thought i was flirting with him. quirky or weird?
CovertChemistryDotCom53 days ago
Answer 1 of 9
Epically Awesome
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Wish more girls were forward like that.... then again, they'd put us out of business.
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Simone de Boudoir238 days ago
Answer 2 of 9
Man. Maybe *I'm* the weird one. There wa...
Man. Maybe *I'm* the weird one. There was a guy at school I was totally interested in and it turned out that he was in one of my classes (that's not where I initially noticed him) and we just sat together in class and I asked him to do something outside of class one day. We made plans, which fell through, and then school shit took over and the next thing I knew it was the end of classes and I still hadn't boned him. So I just texted him saying, "dude, I've been trying to get in your pants all semester, but I can't tell if you're down." He was impressed that I was so straightforward and so he's coming over this weekend :)
My approach to guys in my classes is to just approach them.
PinkRoses265 days ago
Answer 3 of 9
This is really cute. I haven't been in ...
This is really cute. I haven't been in college for a couple years now so maybe I'm outdated, but I think this is kinda cool. I think everyone tries to be "normal" when in reality, it's about doing things that make you stand out. This is something cute that makes you stand out.
I agree with the others that maybe putting a "hi" on the paper instead of the question mark, might be a little more clear. I'm not saying the question mark is a bad idea, I just think someone might think you need help with the class, thats all.
Thinkr148267 days ago
Answer 4 of 9
I want to officially rename this move to...
I want to officially rename this move to the "Hi Move". I think drawing a question mark on a piece of paper is a little too weird and confusing for us guy's. I'm gonna propose that instead of a question mark, you should write, in big letters "Hi" on the paper. Combine that with a cute smile when the guy looks...and it's over. He's gonna know you're flirting, and definitely will come up to you after class. I think that would be more clear, more intentional, and cuter.
Albedo267 days ago
Answer 5 of 9
Defiantly both quirky and weird, but tho...
Defiantly both quirky and weird, but those are both good qualities to me.
I would probably not initially consider it flirtatious but it would get my attention and spark my curiosity: therefor leading to conversation.
Good job coming up with a fun way to make the first move.
sexpert267 days ago
Answer 6 of 9
Whatever gets him to come over and intro...
Whatever gets him to come over and introduce himself. Even if he mistakenly thought you needed help, at least you are now having a conversation with him to say "actually, I was wondering what your number was" and so now you have a chance to flirt face to face. And hey, at least you know you're going to be thought about for the rest of the day.
Personally, I would just think you needed help with the class, but that's the teacher in me looking for people to help and teach. And I'm kinda dense sometimes. lol.
2sweet4u267 days ago
Answer 7 of 9
I think this is kinda cute. I'm in coll...
I think this is kinda cute. I'm in college and I can see myself doing something like that. I'm not sure if the guy would get what I was implying though. I can see where the confusion came in for some of the guys (which is kinda funny how the guy thought you needed help with the class).
Regardless, I love trying cute little things that separate myself from the rest of the 300 girls in a lecture room when I'm going after a guy. A college campus is like a feeding frenzy so you gotta try different things.
steveo7267 days ago
Answer 8 of 9
Granted, I'm a few years out of college ...
Granted, I'm a few years out of college now...but looking back, if I was in class and a girl did this, I would probably be a little confused. My first instinct would be that she didn't understand what the professor was babbling about. But she would peak my interest a bit. If she was cute and I was interested, I would definitely go up to her after class and talk to her. So although I wouldn't immediately see it as being flirtatious, the move probably would still have worked...because it still got me to go talk to her. Also, there's something about a girl who's quirky/cute like that, that is really attractive.
Overall I think this is a good move!
scarlettewiththerope268 days ago
Answer 9 of 9
Well I can say that if a guy did this to...
Well I can say that if a guy did this to me I'd think it was cute :) I'm curious to see what the guys say!
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