Sexual Problems
The Girl that Won't Have Sex
I've been hooking up with this chick for the past 3 weeks. It's been your typical weekend, post-bar, and sometimes after work hook-up. It's been great, but we still haven't had sex yet. The first time we hooked up she gave me head, so I thought it wouldn't be long before we had sex. Man, was I wrong. It's been 3 weeks of everything but sex, and while it's great....I'm dying to go all the way with this girl.
I've brought it up before while we're hooking up, but she always seems to dodge the question...for instance, I'll ask if she wants to have sex and she'll respond with something like "not tonite".
I don't know whether or not I see a future with this girl, but I do know that I wanna have sex w/ her. My question....is this kinda thing normal? Maybe some of the girls can tell me why she might be acting like this...
Oh yea, and if you were in my position, how long would you wait?
PinkRoses206 days ago
Answer 1 of 2
DateDaily makes a very true statement wh...
DateDaily makes a very true statement when she talks about 3 weeks was an exception and not the rule.
Although in todays society it might be more common for you to come across girls who have no problem having sex within 3 weeks, you still have to realize that many don't. I wouldn't assume that there's something wrong with her and I definitely wouldn't take it personal.
There are a lot of possibilities and the only way you're going to find out is either to wait until she's ready or to communicate with her about it. Or you could obviously just move on and say forget it. I personally would just bring it up in a mature conversation. That way you don't mess up and move on from someone who could have been a great partner....or you don't end up waiting 3 months :)
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DateDaily206 days ago
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It's possible that she's a virgin and is...
It's possible that she's a virgin and isn't ready to give it up to a guy who isn't sure if he wants a long-term relationship.
It's also possible that she thinks that by making you wait, you will commit.
Or maybe, she's a man, BABY! Just kidding. ;-)
The only real way to find out is by asking her.
You know, there was a time when having sex after 3 weeks was the exception and not the rule.
As for how long to wait, that's a question you have to figure out on your own. Ask her what she wants out of this: a hookup, a commitment... then be honest with her.
Tell her you don't know where this is going but that you want to be with her right now.
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