The Ex
sEX Fantasies.
It's been a couple of months since my ex and I broke up.. and the thing I've found myself thinking about the most is sleeping with him. The sex was so good before we stopped seeing each other and although it would probably be a bad idea to hook up with him now, especially after all the progress I've made, it's difficult to get the idea out of my head. Girls have needs too...
What should I do?
immilla47 days ago
Answer 1 of 2
You have a couple of options here...
1) SLEEP WITH SOMEONE ELSE
Maybe it's just sex you want and not necessarily sex with him. Sleeping with another person may calm your urge to want to jump his bones... Or I guess it could be just the opposite too. Maybe you are still attached and crave that emotional connection during sex that you may not have with some other guy... Then that gets kind of sticky. You don't wanna fall back into an unhealthy pattern.
2) HATE FUCK
I don't know what kind of terms you two ended on though... or if (no offense) he is interested in still sleeping with you to begin with.
3) BOOTY CALL HIM
Girls can do it too! And, depending on where you are emotionally, girls CAN detach themselves during sex. Just call him up and be like, "listen.. I need have sex and i'm just putting that out there for you..let me know if you're interested."
4) MASTURBATE...A LOT
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MC42348 days ago
Answer 2 of 2
Clever title! This situation sucks and let me tell ya, I've been there before. I think maybe its cuz once you've broken up, and all the pressure of the relationship and all the problems and stress have disappeared, the sex just gets incredible. In my experience though it's always a bad idea. Especially with you saying that you've been doing well, which I assume means you're moving on, it's probably a major step backwards.
You said "girls have needs too...". It's more than just girl's having needs, it's human beings having needs...we crave sexual contact. We were built in order to procreate ("do it"). Its natural for you to have strong sexual desires towards him, but it's probably in your best interest to suppress them.
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