Date Ideas
What's was the best date you've ever been on?
Before I go on a date with someone I always have this image in my head of how it's going to play out. In my mind it always plays out perfectly. All the things I plan goes smooth, she's great, the convo flows, and so forth. Then I go on the date and it rarely plays out that way. Not saying it plays out bad but it never goes just the way you had envisioned it.
Well the best date I have had went just like I envisioned it. Met up with a stunning girl and everything was just perfect. Unfortunately nothing long-term came from it but it was still one of those floating on air type of dates.
Anyone want to share theirs?
sexpert28 days ago
Answer 1 of 2
I have a horrible story! If people have...
I have a horrible story!
If people have been following my posts for awhile, then you know that I grew up in a very unhealthy church. I don't believe all churches are unhealthy, but this one was led by unhealthy people with unhealthy motivations, and they hurt a lot of people (and unfortunately still continue to hurt a lot of people).
So while growing up in this extremely hostile fundamentalist church (which even other fundamentalist churches are like - guys, relax), I was taught a lot of hateful things about gay people, Jews (in a backward subtle way) and about sexuality in general. So, one year my brother was in a play they were doing about the Crucifixion of Jesus (obviously this was around Easter). I really wanted my girlfriend to understand what my old church was like. I wanted her to see the influences that shaped and made me who I was. I wanted her to understand what a miracle it was that I was the healthy, loving, and caring person that I was.
So I brought my lesbian Jewish girlfriend as my date to my old church's Easter play. It was beautiful. I didn't introduce her to anyone as my gf, I just told them she was a friend. In one night, she got to see where I came from, and understood me on a whole new level.
I also got to secretly rebel against my church and without telling anyone, I was screaming my victory over hate, prejudice, fear, and scorn.
Something healed that day, and my girlfriend helped me do it. I finally got closure on some things that I never had closure on before.
I think it benefited our relationship, and I felt closer to her than ever.
So yeah, I bet you weren't expecting that one as an answer! Oh Sexpert, what a rebel you are! What a naughty girl!
(and I have to admit, half the fun was being so damn naughty!)
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Fork in Road38 days ago
Answer 2 of 2
The first year that my wife and I starte...
The first year that my wife and I started dating we went on a day trip to an amusement part like 6 flags. It was unreal. Not only was I with the girl of my dreams but we felt like kids again. I felt like I was on a date in middle school or high school with nothing to worry about. Just the two of us running around, going on roller coasters, eating carnival food, going on the water slides. It sounds corny but It definitely was one of the best dates ever.
