I'm not very experienced and that's why I'm using a site like this. I haven't had a serious relationship with anyone that involved lots of sex. I'm in my first year of college so I am sexually active but it's just been with random hook ups. Don't worry I always use protection.
I was reading on another site about guys faking orgasms. I was wondering, can a girl feel when a guy ejaculates inside of them if they aren't wearing a condom? What about if they are wearing a condom? I thought girls for sure would feel this? Just wondering...doesn't really apply to me though
Albedo203 days ago
Answer 1 of 3
I have explicitly faked an orgasm once and on a few occasions have neglected to mention weather or not I had finished. There are just some days where it is just not going to happen and that is fine with me.
Despite the fact that I can get away with faking an orgasm I don't like to. I prefer to explain that I am not going to finish and I am ok with that. It is a bit difficult to explain to someone the first time. The stereotype of a man being able to cum on demand, or cumming too early really is working against you.
I don't recommend faking orgasms, communication is a better option in the long run. That said if you are not as concerned about the long run and you don't want to get into this conversation go for it. If you are using a condom she will probably never know.
sexpert212 days ago
Answer 2 of 3
Ahaha, guys faking orgasms. Oh the stories I've heard. The best part about being known for talking about sex is that everyone comes to you with their stories.
So personally, I can feel it, but for a very specific reason. If a guy says that he is going to cum, that is my favourite part of PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex, and I cum instantly. Cumming means that my lady bits contract and get super tight, meaning that I can feel every twitch, every surge, every beat of his heart. I love it.
Still, for anyone else, I can understand why women would be fooled, although much easier with a condom. With a condom, most women don't inspect it afterward to confirm the amount of ejaculate. They usually lead that disposal to the guy.
Without a condom, it depends. Some men's semen is more clear and depending on how long you've had an erection for, and when the last time you ejaculated, the amount of ejaculate changes.
One of the things in a guy's favour is that most women aren't expecting a guy to fake, and therefore will not notice anything "suspicious" because there is no reason to be suspicious. If she does make mention about the lack of cum, a guy can say something simple like "I thought girls always complained about there being too MUCH cum, and now you're complaining about too LITTLE? How does a man please you people?" by turning it into a joke, it shows he's not worried, and then girl will forget it.
I did have one guy try to fake it with me. poor thing. We were doing marathon sex, and it was the second time we were having sex, and I don't think he could cum, and so just faked it so I would feel better. I suppose that's sort of noble, right?
scarlettewiththerope213 days ago
Answer 3 of 3
It's different with different guys and different girls (in my experience, at least!) I personally can't feel the ejaculate AT ALL, but some of my friends have said they can feel it. With some guys, I've found that their cocks jerked/twitched in a very specific way when they came, and that's a distinctive feeling. Different women also have sensitivity to different depths, etc, on the inside, and you have to account for different penis shapes and sizes too.