Adultery

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After the affair - from shock and horror back to trust

Is it true what they say, "Once a cheater, always a cheater"?
Has your relationship survived an affair?
How?

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Ask Eve

Ask Eve242 days ago

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I personally don't believe that saying. ...

I personally don't believe that saying. Everyone is different! What MC said is perfectly true. Lots of relationships have gone through rocky patches and survived affairs but the "cheater" would need to prove themselves by their actions that this was a one off mistake and it would never happen again. "It takes years to build up trust but only seconds to destroy it..."

~Eve~

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MC423

MC423281 days ago

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I don't think the saying is true at all....

I don't think the saying is true at all. There are many people out there that have cheated at one point in their lives but have gone on to have very loyal relationships. However, with that said, I do think its very very hard to move on in a relationship with the same person who cheated on you. No matter what, the thoughts are always going to be stuck in the back of your mind. As soon as you don't hear from that person for a long time I feel like you instantly go back to that place in your mind and start wondering...

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