I was just reading an article about how women love certain things in bed but might be afraid to let you know. I know that the best thing in a relationship is communication so that two people can share their likes and dislikes, but, that's easier said than done.
What are some common things that women love in the bedroom but often times won't let the guy know? Maybe they're embarrassed to say, shy, or afraid the guy won't be down.
It's time to tell us ladies...
Go ahead, have some fun
terrible idover a year ago
Answer 1 of 5
Its all about patience..... I do this and have learned to contain it...... We want a girl who wants us and wants us to do everything we want to do to them. This is why I could never pay for sex Im too indecisive when it comes to what I want....
Just taking things in levels helps them and helps you. Those be all end all things dont work all the time. You could hurt this poor girl with some of these things.... Tap her ass lightly trim the fingernails and figure out what those can do for her. Touch everything and grab at will, not hard, and her body language will give you so much insight.
RelaxItover a year ago
Answer 2 of 5
Multiple girls that I've had sex with really enjoyed me putting pressure on the back of their neck just underneath where their hair ends.
To give a better visualization of this. Think about when you're passionately kissing someone. You sometime will place your hand just on the back of their head just around the hair line. If you do that while having sex then just apply a little pressure. Sounds weird and unnatural but you'll actually realize your hand goes their often. Next time it does, apply a little pressure.
I've had multiple girls tell me they love it and it took things to the next level for them.
Kyle Miracleover a year ago
Answer 3 of 5
Well, now I know exactly how to seduce a couple girls on this forum! Haha, thanks girls :)
The red flag in my mind here is that if she feels the need to hide these from me, then she's not comfortable enough with me. So we have to become more comfortable with each other. For some reason girls I get intimate with always seem eager to share their fantasies with me...why is that? Well for one, I myself am very comfortable and willing to share these secrets about my personal desires. And I find it fascinating to hear theirs. I think everyone deep down wants to feel naughty with another person; they just want to be reassured it won't come back and bite them in the ass.
I live in a tent and I call it the "no-judgment" tent. When a girl lies down in the tent, I want her to feel as comfortable as possible to be open with me. And I reciprocate that. It's a really great way to live life!
sexpertover a year ago
Answer 4 of 5
Hmm... I like my butt cheeks grabbed and then pulled apart when I'm riding a guy. It makes my ass feel great. It's easy for me to say what I want, but sometimes it's harder for me to say what I don't want (because talking about what you want is sexy, talking about what you don't want is a downer).
The advice that I would give for people trying to find out their partners' turn ons would be to set up an atmosphere where it is safe to talk about these things. There are a couple things you can do for this.
1. watch porn together and ask "would you want to do that?" for everything that happens. This lets you find out BOTH the good and the bad, and inevitably, you get to act out your own porno in the end
2. Don't insult other people's kinks at any point. This means that if you are hearing second hand stories about "friends of friends", or even watching TV, think about what you're saying. You don't have to say that everything is hot, but if someone is talking about a sexual practice, say rimming, and you go "eww! why would anyone ever want to do that? that's so nasty!" suddenly you may have alienated your partner without realizing it. If you say "I know a lot of people find it pleasurable, but I don't know if I would be comfortable doing that." then at least your partner doesn't feel like a freak, or he/she can open up a dialogue and say "if the person showers first, it doesn't smell bad, and you can use scented lube, etc" and suddenly you are opening up lines of communication rather than shutting them down.
3. Say things that YOU like. Communication is a two-way street, and when you start opening up about your kinks/desires/wants, it helps the other person reciprocate. Besides, maybe your wants are also your partner's wishes too.
And if you are still reading, I am impressed. Just to add a final note to this lengthy diatribe - sometimes it's not what you do, it's how you do it. Keep this is mind when you are asking questions, because if the girl says "grab my ass", does that mean in a soft, gentle, loving, massage like way, or does that mean in a rough, primal, caveman want girl to ride him harder sort of way? There are subtle nuances that you should keep in mind, and glean from the conversation.
scarlettewiththeropeover a year ago
Answer 5 of 5
I know a lot of women (especially younger women) who are uncomfortable asking a guy to go down on them. I know that's not exactly a revelation, but I still think most guys should offer more... especially after a girl goes down on them! I also know a lot of women who are uncomfortable with a guy going down on them because they think it's 'nasty,' which just makes me sad, because that's totally something that's been fed to us by sexist stereotypes. So I personally feel that everyone should be actively fighting that one, lol.
Otherwise, I dunno about the typical female... I'll generally ask for what I want. I figure if a guy doesn't wanna do something, he'll say so, so there's no harm in asking. Maybe that's cuz I was an only child though, haha :D