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Re-igniting Those Old Flames

A few years back, when I was living at home, I used to pull a lot more girls than I do now. A few of the girls I hooked up with were realll tight and I'm dying to hook up with them again. Problem is...everytime I see them, it seems like they aren't interested whatsoever in hooking up again... What should I do? How should I approach it?

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adviceguru

adviceguru176 days ago

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Wrong way to look at things

People move on man. You had your time together and she's moved on. It's time you find someone new to fool around with.

A lot of times it's easy to rekindle old flames but if that's the case you'll know right away. It won't be any work.

If you really want to get back together with them or try to hook up with them again, then treat them like a girl you just met. It's been a while since you two have been together so you need to treat it like you barely know each other anymore.

I suggest you stop focusing on this and just go out and meet some new ladies.

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NeurOG

NeurOGover a year ago

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You don't. Why put all that energy in t...

You don't. Why put all that energy in to getting something going again just for carnal pleasure? Why not put less energy in to meeting, attracting, and sleeping with someone new? It takes less positive energy to get someone new than it does to get someone you've had before that you're not currently with.

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