Leftos

It's a toss up between: a) my hair - I'm very blond and my hair is very fine, so it takes a lot of work to keep from looking like I'm going bald. It's a good thing I like the military aesthetic because I'm limited to basically two hairstyles. Also, the hair on my face is three colors and noticeably so. Apparently that means I'm descended from Vikings or something, but damn. b) my skin - the grand troika of ultra sensitivity (prone to welting), oiliness (prone to breakouts) AND a tendency to dry out/burn rapidly (depending on the season). more

I had a girlfriend who was looking for a sugar daddy. To be fair, I was dishonest with her when we met. I overstated my net worth. So she decided she wanted to get pregnant. She told me she had just finished her period, and told me I didn't have to pull out. In fact, she said it was gross when I pulled out. Not to get too specific, we did the deed and I faked it. She never got pregnant, and she ended up dumping me a few months later. I guess she found a new prospect. more

Obviously coitus interruptus has been around for a while, therefore Freud's discussion of it. But I think the specific notion that the face is a sexier place to put it than the vagina is a product of porn. I have to think that the acceptance of facials among women is enhanced by its potential for taking the issue of swallowing off the table. But when a guy has a woman who swallows and he'd still rather jerk off onto her face than have her sucking on him as he orgasms, that makes me roll my eyes.more

I don't have a big nose but It's been broken twice from playing sports. If you look at it closely you can tell it's a little off center. Everyone say's that it's not noticeable unless I point it out but to me it seems so obvious. luckily it's something I can have fixed if I ever want to. I just have always put it off. I don't know if the pain and hassle of a nose job is worth it.more

hahaha that's really funny actually. I've had some amazing freudian slips in my day too (not sure if yours qualifies as a freudian slip though). I love hearing people's little phrases that hold significance to them and their close ones. I actually like not knowing what they mean and just hearing them and thinking...what in the world could that mean and even funnier, how could that have come about.more

It's funny you say that because I'm a very polite and proper guy when you first meet me. Not stiff but I definitely won't come out right away and say something dirty 5 minutes after we meet. However, deep down inside I still have the humor of a 15 year old boy (and I'm proud of it). So once I get comfortable with someone and know they won't judge me for the weird things I say...I let loose. I'm sure there's people out there that could think of some outrageous stuff I've said to them in my day. I think everyone can relate to this.more

I'm glad to have helped. I saw a therapist for a year and a half, following my parent's divorce, and as such have loads of info on different coping methods. I wish your friend luck.more

Oh good lord, the walls of text I could leave here. I wear glasses, have for years. The first time I met my boyfriend's best friend, I gave my guy a hug, then promptly pulled away when my glasses fogged up. I meant to say "My glasses fog up every time I hug you" what came out was "My glasses fog up every time I fuck you." That was one of the first things my guy's BFFL heard me say, and I have not heard the end of it since. Also, the phrases 'lightsabers', 'only if I can play with yours', and 'to boldly go where no man has gone before' hold alot of special significance, the last one being an especially long story.more

Well I think it all started because men were pulling at as a method of birth control. Clearly they had to let "it" go somewhere and eventually the "facial" evolved. I agree though that porn uses it in a derogatory and chauvinistic to make the man look all big and bad. They use it in a way to show the ownership over the woman. With that said...I also HAVE came across (no pun intended) several women who do enjoy receiving them....seriously. more

I learned not to get married too young, and that you have to be able to account and consider how that person might change over time. My parents got married when they were both 19. After almost 20 years of marriage, they divorced 2 years ago. Why? It seems cliche, but honestly, neither was the person the other had married anymore. I don't wanna go into details on a public forum (if you really wanna know, message me), but I learned in general, that a person's youthful experiences, and the baggage they leave behind, WILL bite all parties involved right in the collective ass if not dealt with early. So people, spend a looooooong ass time making sure that the person you're planning on marrying isn't just an amazing girl/boyfriend, but that they will make a good spouse as well. The two are a lot more different than you'd think.more

I agree, the "facial" cumshot is the product of porn making it seem cool to lots of men. I would be interested to know if there's any evidence that it even existed before the era of video porn. It does seem absolutely bizarre that a passionate sexual act should be terminated before conclusion so the man can masturbate onto the woman's face. Many women online write about how a man's coming in their vaginas excites them, and more than a few say that it frequently triggers an orgasm for them. How can a guy with any sense bypass something that might just make a woman come with him? Freud said lots of BS about sex, but his criticism of coitus interruptus as a bad thing for women was apt, I think. I have seen amateur videos where the man pulls out as soon as he feels the possibility of an orgasm, foreclosing the possibility of vaginal orgasm so he can finish with up to 5 minutes of masturbation (or sometimes, fellatio) and ejaculate onto the woman's face. That has disgusted me so much that it has cured me of watching that stuff.more

Sorry for not responding for so long, family issues had me away from the site. Scarlet, the movie was Repo: The Genetic Opera. It's a rock opera based off a stage show. It was kind of underground when it first came out, but the movie Repo Men (because it totally ripped off the main elements of the opera) is getting people to look back at it. The community of fans was really close and generally an AMAZING bunch of people. Sexpert, that's EXACTLY what happened XD. I asked a lot of questions at first, even did some chat-based roleplay and porn trading with a few of my closer compadres. I was in an environment that supported kink, and was able to explore my boundaries with myself before I explored them with others.more

Unless the girl is saying lets go fool around, lets go on a date, or do you like me...I don't see why you would have to come out and say anything. If you don't flirt back when she is clearly coming onto you then she'll eventually get the message. Just act stupid like you don't notice. Eventually if you don't bite the bate she'll move on. If she doesn't then I guess you can always make small hints to her that your not interested. Another good idea is to tell her how hot another girl at the bar is or how you really like some other girl. more

Seriously. If I had known when I was younger that so many varieties of fun sexy stuff existed, I wouldn't have had the big crisis I did (long story). Also, girls need to learn that they can usually get themselves off better than any teenage boy can. Boys have it real easy when it comes to masturbation. Girls, not so much. more

When I was younger, I liked to have two friends on the phone at once in conference calls because 2 friends = twice the silliness. Unfortunately, we had a habit of calling these 'three-ways'. Whoops. Also, I used to think that 'shag' applied to rugs and carpet, and assumed 'shag vans' were those big 60's vans in which such carpet was installed. Double whoops.more

I'll use the same answer here as I did on Tumblr, because although it is riddled with profanity, and not quite as eloquent as what I usually post here it's my opinion. *ahem* I think Australia is completely fucking insane. Banning someone, not just someone, but a whole group of someones, from performing because of a bodily feature borders on prejudice. Now, not hiring an individual for a particular role because they don’t fit is another matter entirely. If they’re worried about pedophilia-promoting content, then they should ban the CONTENT. Child-roleplay scenes, etc. This is a half-assed attempt to control something in place of not being able to control something else. And besides, what constitutes ‘small’ breasts? A? B? What about other bodily features? If the woman is an A-cup, but pushing 40 with tan lines and crow’s feet, is there really any doubt she appears any less a grown woman because she lacks an impressive bust? Why not ban shaved pussies, if they’re so worried about pedophilia? Female porn stars are waxed down to nothing, if they’re really concerned, promote body hair. It just makes no sense to me.more

Kyle I think the problem with PUA is you are trying to tie yourself down to a set of rules. Women are not computers you can't insert the correct password for all of them everybody is different and has different tastes. Thats where I think the way you make people around you feel becomes more important than anything else. I don't believe in tying yourself down to any way of thinking I think if you think on your feet and use your brain rather than try and tie yourself down a pattern that everybody else is following you fail. I don't know about you but I'm pretty sure women see these guys coming from a mile away. On the other hand the guy if you are yourself I'm not saying it guaruntees you success but what I am saying is you start off on the right path. The girl you are trying you pick up may just be a one night stand or a hell of a lot more so its important to get off on the right foot. I'd recommend Bond movies btw lol.more