I think Sexpert nailed it. Most of the time us guys are sitting around clueless. We are stressing on when and what to say to the girl, wondering if she is interested, and secretly hoping she contacts us first to save the trouble.
If you really had a good time and want to make sure you get together again I would just send something exactly like you suggested in your original post. As a guy, if I received a message from a girl like that after a date, I'd be pretty happy and excited (assuming I am interested). Most girls don't take that initiative and I would think it's pretty cool. I would most likely respond by saying something like, "I did too, how about I call you Thursday and we figure it out?"
I'm assuming that's probably the response you're looking for when sending your initial message and that's exactly what you would get if the guys interested.
If he's not interested then he'll somehow avoid getting drinks and you'll get the clue. Of course that's a bummer but at least you know that you can stop wasting your time and sitting next to your phone all week hoping for him to call. Just a little reminder though, if he says he can't get together this weekend, don't automatically assume he doesn't like you. He may very well have something he has to attend. I would just make a mental note and try again for another night. If a pattern starts to form then I think you can make the assumption that he's not interested and to move on.more
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