Multiple girls that I've had sex with really enjoyed me putting pressure on the back of their neck just underneath where their hair ends. To give a better visualization of this. Think about when you're passionately kissing someone. You sometime will place your hand just on the back of their head just around the hair line. If you do that while having sex then just apply a little pressure. Sounds weird and unnatural but you'll actually realize your hand goes their often. Next time it does, apply a little pressure. I've had multiple girls tell me they love it and it took things to the next level for them.more

Well, now I know exactly how to seduce a couple girls on this forum! Haha, thanks girls :) The red flag in my mind here is that if she feels the need to hide these from me, then she's not comfortable enough with me. So we have to become more comfortable with each other. For some reason girls I get intimate with always seem eager to share their fantasies with me...why is that? Well for one, I myself am very comfortable and willing to share these secrets about my personal desires. And I find it fascinating to hear theirs. I think everyone deep down wants to feel naughty with another person; they just want to be reassured it won't come back and bite them in the ass. I live in a tent and I call it the "no-judgment" tent. When a girl lies down in the tent, I want her to feel as comfortable as possible to be open with me. And I reciprocate that. It's a really great way to live life! emore

Hmm... I like my butt cheeks grabbed and then pulled apart when I'm riding a guy. It makes my ass feel great. It's easy for me to say what I want, but sometimes it's harder for me to say what I don't want (because talking about what you want is sexy, talking about what you don't want is a downer). The advice that I would give for people trying to find out their partners' turn ons would be to set up an atmosphere where it is safe to talk about these things. There are a couple things you can do for this. 1. watch porn together and ask "would you want to do that?" for everything that happens. This lets you find out BOTH the good and the bad, and inevitably, you get to act out your own porno in the end 2. Don't insult other people's kinks at any point. This means that if you are hearing second hand stories about "friends of friends", or even watching TV, think about what you're saying. You don't have to say that everything is hot, but if someone is talking about a sexual practice, say rimming, and you go "eww! why would anyone ever want to do that? that's so nasty!" suddenly you may have alienated your partner without realizing it. If you say "I know a lot of people find it pleasurable, but I don't know if I would be comfortable doing that." then at least your partner doesn't feel like a freak, or he/she can open up a dialogue and say "if the person showers first, it doesn't smell bad, and you can use scented lube, etc" and suddenly you are opening up lines of communication rather than shutting them down. 3. Say things that YOU like. Communication is a two-way street, and when you start opening up about your kinks/desires/wants, it helps the other person reciprocate. Besides, maybe your wants are also your partner's wishes too. And if you are still reading, I am impressed. Just to add a final note to this lengthy diatribe - sometimes it's not what you do, it's how you do it. Keep this is mind when you are asking questions, because if the girl says "grab my ass", does that mean in a soft, gentle, loving, massage like way, or does that mean in a rough, primal, caveman want girl to ride him harder sort of way? There are subtle nuances that you should keep in mind, and glean from the conversation.more

I know a lot of women (especially younger women) who are uncomfortable asking a guy to go down on them. I know that's not exactly a revelation, but I still think most guys should offer more... especially after a girl goes down on them! I also know a lot of women who are uncomfortable with a guy going down on them because they think it's 'nasty,' which just makes me sad, because that's totally something that's been fed to us by sexist stereotypes. So I personally feel that everyone should be actively fighting that one, lol. Otherwise, I dunno about the typical female... I'll generally ask for what I want. I figure if a guy doesn't wanna do something, he'll say so, so there's no harm in asking. Maybe that's cuz I was an only child though, haha :Dmore

I'm thinking of ways to make her cum more and harder, after all its all about her pleasure that gives me pleasure, unless I've had a rough day at work then its a bdsm night and its all about what i want which gets her off because she loves to make me happy.more

it all depends on the time constraints and what we feel like. for a hot quickie, standing doggie, for a more sensual encounter, cowgirl or spooning. If we are in a paticularly kinky adventerous mood, well llets just say anything goes and the favorite position is somewhat personal for me ;)more

Im never sure if I should be offended that my man is thinking of something other than me, or appreciative that he cares enough to try to last as long as possible. For me, knowing that he is thinking of something else brings out my instigating side and I must go crazy on him until he loses the thought. Its a fine game at times to see how long he can hold it before I drive him over the edge. Its also very sexy to hear him say increasingly frantically..."blue sky...blue sky!" before hes gone.lolmore

I think about how much my partner is enjoying it. That usually gets me off pretty quick. I tend to go into a little abstract world in my head without visual input, without too many thoughts except "this is amazing" and a series of expletives. I focus very hard on what is happening to my body (haha, I said hard on) and the waves of pleasure. I listen to when my body is ready to cum so that I can do my part to push myself over the edge. Occasionally I realize I have to fart and I concentrate very hard on not doing that, because that would break the mood. I can tell you what I don't think about. I don't think about my facial expression, or how weird I look. I don't think about whether or not my stomach flab is jiggling. I don't think about if someone can hear me moaning. All of those things stop me from cumming quickly, and I have just learned not to think about that.more

Almost always I think about dirty things that I wish the guy was saying to me. I'm very aurally stimulated and most guys don't do the whole dirty talk thing (or commands and begging and namecalling) if they're not familiar with bdsm type play to begin with. I've had a few of them try, but it's not quite the same as someone who is confident in what they're saying to me. Seriously though, you want me to cum like a madwoman? Tease the shit out of me until I can't stand it, while telling me what a dirty whore I am and making me beg for your cock inside me. Ahhhh. more

I have never had an orgasm from penetration, so please pay attention to my clitoris! I love doggy style, with the guy reaching around to play with my clit, or me playing with it myself. The most fun for me is a good long buildup. So many guys go for the big two (boobs and vag) right away. Make out for awhile. Make out until you think you can't stand it any longer. Tease her. Don't even go near her vagina until she's practically begging for it and her hips are grinding towards your body/face. Mm. I'm turning myself on here. Hahaha. more

There are a lot of girls that say that they can only cum when they're on top. I can barely cum when I'm on top, but penetration when I'm on my back, or doggy style gets me almost instantly. Every girl is really different. And it's different with different partners. I don't like it too deep, and I find a lot of guys try for that. I had one guy whose penis was so big that it hurt no matter what, and we ended up only being able to spoon, because it wouldn't go in more than an inch in the position we were in. Also the rhythm and way that you move your hips can change how a position feels. There is straight in and out, then there is doing it more in a circular motion, and then there is short rapid thrusts, and then the longer thrusts. I would suggest varying the type of motion with the position to see what works best. Basically, always listen to your partner.more

Depends. Sometimes, nothing. That's the best. One time, I went through my list of old girlfriends, and tried to remember having sex with all of them. I got confused and mixed up the order, though, but by that time it didn't matter. LOL! Usually, I am thinking about how beautiful my partner is and how it always goes too quickly. more

You can always ask her. more

Missionary Doggy Girl on top Missionary for the grand finale My girlfriends always want to end with us holding each other. It just seems more intimate than dropping a load her butt. Doggy and girl on top can be alternated. And like 3OFLondon said, changing positions without losing penetration is kinda cool, too. more

Just don't get in trouble. Whatever you do, don't get busted. Other than that, people can pretty much do it anywhere. Sexpert is right. Make sure you use a condom and don't make messes on other people's furniture. I find that if there is an element of danger involved, it's a lot of fun. The heightened senses make it OK, so here are a few things my gf and I did. * Hiking - we found a secluded place where nobody could see us, but we could actually hear people walking down the foot path * Another time hiking - went off the main road and did it standing up (doggy style) a few feet from a busy road, on the other side of a tree. We could hear cars going by, but nobody could see us. We were about 10 feet below the road. * In the garage of her parent's house in the back of an SUV. * In a parking garage in a van. We could hear people walking around outside, but nobody could see in. * Looking for an apartment, the landlord was busy and gave us the key. We went in side and did it on a window sill. The overall themes are, both of us were willing, and it was spontaneous. The most dangerous thing we ever did was have sex behind some bushes during a huge concert in the park. We were both so excited that it only lasted a few seconds. She was wearing a mini-skirt. She laid down with her legs straight out and pulled her panties down just enough for me to enter her. I laid on top of her and just a few strokes later, I made a mess all over the inside of her skirt. (It was so spontaneous that we didn't even have a condom ready.) We quickly stood up and walked away. Other things you can try to make things exciting are to go to a local hangout. Since you're minors, you can't go to a bar, but go to the mall in separate cars. Pretend to pick her up and take her somewhere to have sex. Then send her home. Pretend it's a one-night stand. Have her write her number down and tell her you'll call. Other things to try. Make love without speaking. Make love without touching her with your hands. Blindfolds. Etc. Last one. I shared a room. My roommate did not tell me his gf was coming over. They were doing it in the bedroom when my gf showed up. Now this is really kinky, but we did it in the living room while they were going it in the bedroom, and we could hear each other. That's the kind of stuff you can do when you're 18 and crazy. more

What about in her ass? Oh wait, you're talking about THOSE other places. nevermind. Okay, this is really bad, but when I was younger, I used to do it at my friend's houses without them knowing. I got a total thrill out of it. Always use a condom, don't leave a mess, and make it quick and quiet. Also, if you can't find new places to do it, you can always try new ways of doing it. I like adding toys to the equation. little tip: Vibrating cock ring = vibrating penis. Totally awesome. And yes, can you use your vibrating dick to tickle her clit? Of course! Other neat things you can do with toys besides the standard vibrator? Try getting a vibrating butt plug and use it while having vaginal sex. The butt plug will vibrate, giving her pleasure, but it also presses against the vaginal wall and causes the vagina to become tighter and vibrate. Totally awesome for the penis involved too. Hell, buy one for yourself while you're at it!more