Okay, I have to throw in another fun toy experiment. I like vibrating butt plugs. (don't be scared, get a bigger one, because the smaller ones just slide right out). Do your research, get a good butt plug that is the right shape and size, and then use it on yourself when you are alone, just so you can get the feeling, realize how much lube to use, realize how it's supposed to feel, etc. When you are ready ladies, try having sex with your bf while the vibrating butt plug is in place. It's really cool!
The wall between the vagina and the colon is actually quite thin (not thin as in fragile, just thin as in vibrations can travel though it easy), so when a guy penetrates you, first of all the butt plug will press against your vagina, and make you tighter, the second thing is that it vibrates, and the guy can totally feel it against his dick.
I like it because I like anal stimulation, but sometimes a butt plug can be less intimidating than a cock. As well, it stays in place, meanwhile the part of your body that can take a pounding (your vag) can get pounded. It's a nice way to mix anal stimulation with harder sex. The other thing is that you definitely feel "full". It's an intense feeling, and is probably the closest I will ever come to being DPed. (most guys I know are a little too skittish to do a mmf threesome).
So yeah, vibrating butt plugs for the win. Just remember your safer anal sex rules (lots of lube, go slow, stop if it hurts, and always use a condom, especially if you ever want to share). That's right, you can share. One day you might be able to stimulate the prostate of your lover boy - and trust me ladies, that is amazing! It might just be the pansexual in me, but penetrating someone totally turns me on.
Btw, anyone know a good brand for strap ons?more